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attendant dominant
The attendant dominant is selected by the submissive. Typically, that choice is based on trust and the competence and comfort of the dominant to partake in the activities selected by the submissive.
Attendant Dominant
Trust
The submissive must trust the dominant to proceed and stay in the stated boundaries. This is important because the lifestyle is full of alpha males and faux doms, in particular following the release 50’Shades of gray. Submission is a gift to the dominant so trust is paramount.
Competence
There are few jack of all doms in the lifestyle. For example, if the submissive is seeking shabari, a form of intricate robe bondage, it is important they pair with dominants with that developed skill.
Comfort
If the submissive is a pain slut, then they are probably in the wrong website. We are the home of soft submission where most of the doms would be uncomfortable providing that degree of pain.